What life am I living where I’m keeping tabs on what everyone else is doing, or not, measuring up to, or not, achieving, or not? See, I’m struggling to overcome both perfectionism and being a judgementalist. Which simply means that if I don’t have much grace for you, you can bet that I have even less for myself. I’m trying my hardest and I expect you to try too.
 
It never even occurred to me that the definition of “trying” could be different for different people.